I mentioned at http://www.annabelleigh.net/messages/478810.htm a little GM where my 10yo LGF came into the room I was in, having 'accidentally' put her top on backwards, and then said asked for my help and took it off completely unprompted. A wonderful moment that left me dizzy.

This has escalated into a daily occurence, and I'd be interested for any info about the psychology of why she is doing this, from your own GM experiences.

E.g. yesterday she pretended to hide something of mine, and the only place it could be was in her knickers. She then set about pulling her knickers down, turning round, showing me everything, then proving it wasn't hiding by her micro-boobies either by repeatedly flashing those.

Of course I am a little flustered by this, but don't encourage it at all. Then again, I don't discourage it by making her feel, "that is dirty, don't do that, it's wrong, it's bad"... I just sit there letting her play the game she wants to play.

Maybe I am giving away unknowing looks of it pleasing me, when my pupils dilate, and she is reading this and therefore continuing. She now regularly comes to wherever I am, to get changed and strip her top off. I've never had such heart palpitations.

Others here have talked of making sure that everything is on the LG's terms, and to let them take what they want and need from you, without ever directing what *you* want onto them.

I am being a gentleman in this regard, but seriously... what is it she is trying to 'take' from me? I find it hard not to see this behaviour with my adult eyes.

In any other situation this would be seen as a mating ritual! But of course we have laws that mean I'm not allowed to think in such a natural way.

If any other female were to flash their breasts and nether region at me, I'd take it as an instant invitation to develop the relationship physically. But here is this gorgeous LGF of mine and love of my life, doing the same, and all I can do is sit there and watch what she chooses to show me.

It is so HARD.

Is she trying to tell me she wants to take more from me than just looks? God knows.
Am I going to upset her by not giving her what she is trying to take from me?
Will she feel snubbed?

Recently I walked into the bathroom and said I need to go to the toilet, and went to lock her out, but she pushed her way in, locked the door with us both in there, and insisted on watching. Of course like a good GLer I made an excuse and said, "I can't go when people are watching me!", and after a WHILE I got her to leave. Later I was in the bathroom and she came in, and showed great glee in going to the toilet in front of my very eyes. She even made a point of lifting her dress up high as she sat there. I could tell it was very calculated on her part.

Basically, she's a big flirt!

I feel she may be 1 step away from asking me to play doctors and nurses. What would I do then? If it is true that children have sexual needs, and I know it is true that my hormones are hard to control at the best of times, I find it hard to know if I could ever refuse such an invitation. Does any human muster such willpower?

I feel perhaps she doesn't really know why she's doing it, but she is just being naughty. Then again, she is very aware that 'men like boobs' and now she has some...

The mind boggles. Please unboggle mine.

Love,
Azure