You know I'm with you buddy, but try to understand WHY you get replies like Shenanigans one.
I would suggest you ask your questions in a more general way, avoiding graphic details.

Last year I posted many of my GM's with A., but reduced this to a minimum after finding out some of us didn't believe my stories. It's almost unavoidable that a few persons don't believe you.

The girl is in charge, yes, but you will have to set boundaries to protect yourself. Bathrooms have a lock, use it :-)

For the rest I'm with qtns2di4, well said and good advice.

Take care, Sancho