GirlChat #479002
Why does my LGF keep flashing me? I can't stop her
Posted by azure on 2009-September-12 16:18:10 EDT, SaturdayThis has escalated into a daily occurence, and I'd be interested for any info about the psychology of why she is doing this, from your own GM experiences.
E.g. yesterday she pretended to hide something of mine, and the only place it could be was in her knickers. She then set about pulling her knickers down, turning round, showing me everything, then proving it wasn't hiding by her micro-boobies either by repeatedly flashing those.
Of course I am a little flustered by this, but don't encourage it at all. Then again, I don't discourage it by making her feel, "that is dirty, don't do that, it's wrong, it's bad"... I just sit there letting her play the game she wants to play.
Maybe I am giving away unknowing looks of it pleasing me, when my pupils dilate, and she is reading this and therefore continuing. She now regularly comes to wherever I am, to get changed and strip her top off. I've never had such heart palpitations.
Others here have talked of making sure that everything is on the LG's terms, and to let them take what they want and need from you, without ever directing what *you* want onto them.
I am being a gentleman in this regard, but seriously... what is it she is trying to 'take' from me? I find it hard not to see this behaviour with my adult eyes.
In any other situation this would be seen as a mating ritual! But of course we have laws that mean I'm not allowed to think in such a natural way.
If any other female were to flash their breasts and nether region at me, I'd take it as an instant invitation to develop the relationship physically. But here is this gorgeous LGF of mine and love of my life, doing the same, and all I can do is sit there and watch what she chooses to show me.
It is so HARD.
Is she trying to tell me she wants to take more from me than just looks? God knows.
Am I going to upset her by not giving her what she is trying to take from me?
Will she feel snubbed?
Recently I walked into the bathroom and said I need to go to the toilet, and went to lock her out, but she pushed her way in, locked the door with us both in there, and insisted on watching. Of course like a good GLer I made an excuse and said, "I can't go when people are watching me!", and after a WHILE I got her to leave. Later I was in the bathroom and she came in, and showed great glee in going to the toilet in front of my very eyes. She even made a point of lifting her dress up high as she sat there. I could tell it was very calculated on her part.
Basically, she's a big flirt!
I feel she may be 1 step away from asking me to play doctors and nurses. What would I do then? If it is true that children have sexual needs, and I know it is true that my hormones are hard to control at the best of times, I find it hard to know if I could ever refuse such an invitation. Does any human muster such willpower?
I feel perhaps she doesn't really know why she's doing it, but she is just being naughty. Then again, she is very aware that 'men like boobs' and now she has some...
The mind boggles. Please unboggle mine.
Love,
Azure
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Responses
- LGF is false - whitetriangle on 2009-September-14 11:35:27 EDT, Monday - (2 / 0 / 8)
- Fair point (nt) - qtns2di4 on 2009-September-16 05:17:26 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Wishful thinking ? - mojoe on 2009-September-15 19:59:13 EDT, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Wishful thinking ? - whitetriangle on 2009-September-16 14:32:45 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: LGF is false - whitetriangle on 2009-September-15 14:17:08 EDT, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Excuse me? - mojoe on 2009-September-15 19:44:02 EDT, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: LGF is false - griffith on 2009-September-14 17:54:57 EDT, Monday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- We should perhaps use BLB instead... - azure on 2009-September-15 12:12:37 EDT, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- I use it as Little Girl, Friend not Girlfriend. nt - azure on 2009-September-14 15:00:51 EDT, Monday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- My two cents - Iron Marxist on 2009-September-13 16:36:34 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- Actually I am willing to allow lies - Hierophant on 2009-September-14 04:12:15 EDT, Monday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Actually I am willing to allow lies - azure on 2009-September-14 15:03:21 EDT, Monday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: My two cents - azure on 2009-September-13 21:00:01 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Actually I am willing to allow lies - Hierophant on 2009-September-14 04:12:15 EDT, Monday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Why would you want her to stop?! - qtns2di4 on 2009-September-13 12:02:05 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- What a wonderful reply... - azure on 2009-September-13 12:52:47 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- o dear - Sancho Panza on 2009-September-13 06:37:32 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Thanks Sancho (nt) - azure on 2009-September-13 13:09:17 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- set limits - Cephaloped on 2009-September-13 05:44:27 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Because karma is actually real? - jd420 on 2009-September-13 03:23:03 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- I suppose I need to step in. - Kero Chan on 2009-September-13 01:13:32 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Thanks Kero... - azure on 2009-September-13 01:49:13 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- PS: Pls keep replies within the rules of GC -nt - azure on 2009-September-13 01:05:48 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- You don't make it easy. - Shenanigans on 2009-September-12 18:00:50 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 15)
- Re: You don't make it easy. - qtns2di4 on 2009-September-13 12:12:48 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Amen! -nt - mojoe on 2009-September-15 22:32:29 EDT, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Hello Shenanigans. - Kero Chan on 2009-September-13 01:26:32 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: You don't make it easy. - silentmist on 2009-September-12 20:58:36 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Thanks SM, here's where/why I was misunderstood - azure on 2009-September-13 12:34:55 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Admins - can we get this timewaster banned? - azure on 2009-September-12 18:31:23 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 9)
- It's just VL who's pissed off - Trucker on 2009-September-12 22:21:43 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Back at you. - Shenanigans on 2009-September-12 18:39:01 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 7)
- So you've raised children + grandchildren? - Gatekeeper on 2009-September-12 19:00:50 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 6)
- Hey man. - Shenanigans on 2009-September-12 19:45:43 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 5)
- Boring - azure on 2009-September-13 12:28:35 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- I will tell you one thing - qtns2di4 on 2009-September-13 12:36:51 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- AZUre - Hierophant on 2009-September-12 20:41:30 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- Is that supposed to mean something? :S Weird. nt - azure on 2009-September-13 12:21:27 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- It is a play on your name is all nt - Hierophant on 2009-September-13 02:36:30 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Is that supposed to mean something? :S Weird. nt - azure on 2009-September-13 12:21:27 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Boring - azure on 2009-September-13 12:28:35 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Hey man. - Shenanigans on 2009-September-12 19:45:43 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 5)
- So you've raised children + grandchildren? - Gatekeeper on 2009-September-12 19:00:50 EDT, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 6)
- Re: You don't make it easy. - qtns2di4 on 2009-September-13 12:12:48 EDT, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)