taf-kat: It is slightly depressing that you feel that any of us would EVER even CONSIDER linking illegal material

Did you miss where this is a large part of what makes them an anti?

For those who don't know me. I am an anti or a non, which ever you pick. All the same to me.

I take issue with that just as JD says. The two are very different. My best friend, his wife, many other real life friends that I have are nons. They have no negative conception of paedophiles and have no problem with us. Their greatest concern involving us even crossing a line in a relationship solely revolves around concern for our safety. They know that we wouldn't hurt anyone and that in consensual relationships it is only external forces that are at all likely to cause harm, so their greatest worry is that it would be found out and we would be put through the system.

Antis, on the other hand, are people who are incapable of grasping the concepts of love and attraction on a base level. They must wrap everything up in some adult-centric distortionally tainted view that dictates that all things outside of a given set of parameters is wrong, harmful, and evil. Antis are not nons, they are Varelse; the question with each anti is if they are Varelse by choice or by ignorance. Antis who are such by ignorance are generally capable of making one of two changes: they either become Varelse by choice, or they become nons. Varelse by choice antis are the ones who I have no tolerence for, have no desire to discuss anything with, and shall never view as anything more than fodder for the public display of blind hatred, prejudice, and evil.

Payned: if you truly do wish to have honest and open discussion there and are truly willing to have an open mind on anything, I must ask you the direct question. We know that you read the boards, so I know that you will understand what I mean when I ask this. Are you a rapist or a non? If you are a non, I will consider giving you the benefit of the doubt and allowing you to prove it in open discussion. If you are a rapist, like your friends MagZ and LILO, I will continue with my recommendation that no one even consider cooperating with you.

If you are truly a voice of reason and not a supporter of hate crimes like your friends, we may have some middle ground to work on. The choice is yours and I will leave it to you.

Demosthenes