You don't. It's up to her, not you.

The number one rule of being a Girl Lover is that we do nothing to direct or influence the actions of the girls in our lives. If she wants to suck your fingers, then she will either ask or just take your hand and do it. Do not alter your behavior in any way. Do not ask her to do it, as that would be projecting your desires unto her. It's not right to do that.

I would urge some caution, especially if you are getting sexually aroused by the finger sucking. You already know how other adults (her parents in particular) will look at that behavior. If they knew you actually encouraged it, then you'll have some problems.

For now, don't change the way you act toward her. Just continue to be loving and caring. Do not try to "direct" her behavior to satisfy your desires. Remember, it's all about what she wants. Just sit back and enjoy the love and attention she shows you, without trying to get more from her.

As for chat, *dons moderator cape*, the rules are the rules and we just can't make any exceptions or else it's not fair to all the others who had to wait. Hibikisensei and ShadowDweller had to wait over 6 months before we let them in! But, they did get in.

Just keep posting and before you know it, you'll be able to chat.

Kero