Thanks for the advice Kero. It means a lot. It's a shame I can't come online and chat about this stuff with more of you, but I understand the 'rules' *sigh*

I do wonder what to do about the finger sucking. Oh and I also forgot to mention she loves giving me back and neck massages (clothed of course). If I offer her one in return, or even pocket money payment, she refuses and says she likes giving them to people.

But yes, the finger sucking. How could I keep it going, but not risk her telling anyone - to her it would be innocent to mention, but fatal to me. I'd feel a right old stereotypical dirty man if I said, "this should be just our little secret!". Yet she loves doing it and I love receiving it. Any advice out there?