Judging from the fact that most young people, during their most active dating years of 18-24, do hookups (one night stands) rather than courtships, and when they do hook up - the men are spontaneously and unquestioning CHOKING their female partners, and the women are going along with it - I would say online porn is certainly harming society. How can one man and one woman develop a meaningful, mutually respectful life partnership when that is the extent of their understanding of how to proceed?

Out of curiosity, where is the former 5th grader now? Did you ever get around to asking her on a date?