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My response some issues you raised

Posted by Lemondolphin on Monday, December 16 2019 at 4:53:31PM
In reply to Questions and advice posted by sadlife on Monday, December 16 2019 at 3:33:32PM

"Thank you for permission to hug, hold, and even flirt with her"

Your welcome :P

"She does not have all the power."

She needs to be told she does. She needs to believe she does because that is the only way the balance of power in the relationship will even out. Believing that, will enable her to interact with you on an equal footing, like you would your peer. If she does not know that, she will relate to you like every other adult... Doing and saying whatever she thinks you want, in order to please you and not get in trouble.

"Crush? I hope not. I don’t want our relationship to be either brief or in any way inappropriate."

Oh yes, I forgot! Women aren't allowed to have romantic and sexual feelings for members of the opposite sex anymore! In fact, all feelings coming from women are inappropriate! Feelings are for men only! (Silly me, I forgot that...)

"Touch her privates? You must think I’m crazy"

Well I didn't, which is why I included it. Most SANE people fully understand that some physically intimate contact is a healthy and normal part of a romantic/sexual partnership. If you don't realize that, then maybe you ARE crazy, or perhaps asexual?

"So far you have only demonstrated an antagonistic attitude in your posts"

Quit projecting for (yourself? Others?) on the board

"And your “wisdom” in predicting what would happen if I did is disturbing."

In what way? Unfortunately, that's just normal psychological consequences of such experiences with toddlers. I'm sure there are many toddlers who wish that wasn't the case. Many would love to indulge if it were safe for them to do so.

"“(Some of) you idiots” seems to eliminate any possibility that any of “us” are NOT idiots in your view."

I was saying 2 things at once... That some are idiots, and those who are...I combined both sentiments.

"and it is here that we can ‘talk’ to people more willing to understand..."

And how much do you understand about girls? How much do you care, how much you understand? How willing are you (and everyone else) to learn?

Would I care to say? When I am clearly held in the lowest regard, do I want to provide the board with ANY further info about myself? When DanielR, who barely even qualifies as a pedophile, is uplifted above me?
Hmm, let me think about that and I'll get back to you.
You already know much more about me than I know about any of you...I don't even know if you are a teen or adult, man or woman. I made the assumption that you are an adult man, just so I could write some kind of coherent reply, though I readily admit I could be wrong.




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