You seem to equate...

Rape and sex, as one and the same. You also seem incapable of seeing any difference between the process of molestation of a woman or child, and otherwise non-abusive physical intimacy. You know, there are actually men out there who have CONSENSUAL sex... and also men who don't have to abuse, trick, manipulate, or coerce their way into a romantic partner's panties. Admittedly, there are very very few of them, but they do exist.

Maybe I was being too presumptive in assuming that "girl lovers" might actually be capable of healthy, normal romantic partnerships with someone they're attracted to. Is this the case?

And yes, they do get trauma from that. This is scientific fact. Children are neurologically incapable of processing erotic/sexual stimulation. That is fact, not opinion.

On the other hand, you might just be indulging in argument for arguments sake, which I find much more likely than any sincerety in your post.

And yes, you were projecting, because the one who has been antagonized is me.
Authenticity and honesty, even when it is uncomfortable for the audience, is not antagonistic.
Disrespect, mocking, making baseless accusations against someone to shut them down, and insulting them among other things, IS antagonistic. (So is arguing for the sake of arguing.)
The former is what I have done. The latter has been done to me.