yeah, i can accept all that Holokitty. women are very different to men in the way they relate to their desired sex, and you characterize it very well, in terms of object relations and such.

but i would say, these things are true in general, but not universal laws. there are little girls out there who don't just twinkle at their knight in armour, they hug him, smooch him, give him butterfly kisses and sometimes even hump his leg.

they know he's not their daddy, and altho they don't care if he's gay or not, they recognize immediately if he is attracted in turn, and they are shameless in seeking out what they want.