Thank you soooo much for talking to me. It is great to be able to talk to someone who is much like my boyfriend. Eventually I hope that he opens up to me and trusts me. Time will tell if my daughter will forgive him and want to be around him again. He definitely did things to her against her will. Luckily it was only two weekends and then she told me. My problem now (aside from my daughter) is how he really and truly feels about me. How can you get someone to admit that they used you to get to your daughter. If that is what he did. I hope like hell he didn't. I am very unsure and there is probably no way to find out. I have written him a letter and asked if he was only attracted to little girls or women also. That is a start to the questions I would like to know from him. I hope you don't mind if I ask more questions in the future. I want to learn all I can and I feel this is an excellent place. Trying to find answers on the internet from different websites has been very confusing. They tend to say the same thing. Blah Blah Blah. Here at least I know I am talking to real people with real experiences. Thanks again........