yes, i know the statistic thing is wrong .. BUT, there are some here (myself not among them) that claim that 10% of abusers are pedophiles ... which suggests that 90% are not, which ALSO suggests that they are not consentual relationships ... so that's where i get it .. i dont really care for that high of a # .. but i DO belive that most cases of sexual abuse are not consentual .. whether that's 51% or 90% i dont know...

as far as changing the law goes, i keep saying it because people keep telling to to ignore the thing .. i cant just fucking ignore the law, as much as i might like to at times .. it's there, and while it's there, it's best to floow it if it makes sense .. in the case, to me, scince i belive that there are cases out there where REAL abuse and REAL rape occur, and find even a SINGLE case of it horrifying .. i choose to side with the law and take no sympathy with thos etha break it.

others here assume that all relationships, or most, or even ONE, is consentual, and therefore woudlnt do anything ... i find that point of view disgusting, probably as much so as they find mine disgusting ... but they're assUme-ing CONSENT ... it's not something you can just assUme.

~M~