and it's not logical to assume it's consentual either.. wich seems at times to be the pervailing GC group think.. (not all the time) ...

I really don't think it's the prevailent attitude here. I think I can see why you might say that. The fact is that most of the discussions about childhood sexuality here at GC DO revolve around consentual sex...but that does not mean they believe that most of the sex with kids that goes on in the RL is consentual. I am sure some people here do believe that the majority of sexual contact is consentual, and I would say those people are deluding themselves.

So, most people here are really just talking about the consentual sex part, after all, we ALL hate rape and abuse...so, of course when we talk about sexual activity we are gonna talk about the non-abuse.

It's all really just a matter of perception.