To @hierophant and @Luckless, I should point out that what I'm talking about is broadly what people should think of when they hear the word MAP or pedophile.
I mean when I hear the word gay I don't think "law breaker" but I appreciate some will break the laws for all kinds of reason. Back when there were laws against homosexual activity it was probably a better comparison. When you heard the word gay did you think law breaker or someone with a sexuality who's most likely law abiding. Now we don't have those laws but as MAPs there are laws so do we want people to think law breaker for being a MAP or someone with a sexuality who's no more likely to be breaking the law than anybody else.
So for 3 I'm talking about do we want to project an image of largely being law abiding citizens as much as anybody else?
For 4 I'm talking about presenting an image of being normal so more easy to relate to rather than the man stalking children like nosferatu.