but its selfish too. so is feeding off other peoples grief.

but i feel for you Spike, & i hope you aren't too offended what i say. nobody give a flying fuck what i think anyway. i'm sure your sympathy is genuine, but you didn't know this man, so what you feel is anger, or outrage, but it isn't loss.

that said, the thing that most concerns me about the behaviour of pedophiles is their vulnerability to suicide and self harm. its like the flip side of hate speech.