The damage has been done, forgive but don't forget

Errrm...No thanks.

Eeyore has done a tremendous service to this community by forcing this issue such as he has. 'Todd' has likewise done an incredible disservice to our community, and has compounded the error with just these sorts of threats.

This whole thing ceased to be a money issue a long time ago, and has rapidly spiraled into a major security issue ever since 'Todd' first decided it a good idea to belt out threats in the heat of emotion.

There certainly is an issue of money here as well, as you yourself said $120.00 is no chump change, and none of us know what Eeyore had to do (or not do as it may be) to raise that amount. Then there is the fact the money was used under false pretenses and in such a way none of us can truly know whether it was used for the purpose which it was intended. The fact that Eeyore may have had to sacrifice in order to raise this amount and then discover it may have been misappropriated for personal gain... it rankles.

Now certainly, the purchase of a new computer and monitor are certainly circumstantial evidence, but the attitude change is what makes me truly suspicious. I could accept a disagreement on the issues, I could even see how someone could be conflicted and change their minds--what I am unable to explain away is the sense of ownership 'Todd' conveys in his various posts here on GCC over the issue. How many times has he offered to do various things with money that was not his? He obtains in these last few months since his change of personality a sense of entitlement.

I'm not obligated to do ANYTHING. I signed no contracts, nor did anyone who contributed. They sent me money and I sent it in, that's it.

Now, if anyone else (besides Lindsay and I) wishes to attach their real name to this project, then they can complain or come up with a better solution or whatever.
--Todd Nickerson, on Wednesday, June 28 2006 at 08:55:25pm

I wish I could offer you many more quotes of this nature, however thanks to 'Todd' having so much insider information he is able to get threads such as the one that came from deleted. I am certain if you refresh your memories you'll recall many many other occasions where 'Todd' has made threats and later had them rescinded via various means. He seems to have this idea that since he came out of the toy box none of us have anything we can say back to him on any subject. When you put your real name... seems to be his trump card to anything and everything. It doesn't work.

I sincerely hope 'Todd' is banned from GirlChat in the aftermath of this, his latest threat.

The procedures are clear and have been put in place long before. Kyva was banned for his use of threats to out someone in real life, I do not see why there is any hesitation here. Unless, 'Todd' has threatened to do as he has promised to Eeyore to them as well.....

But Spike, forgive? I think the Dixie Chicks said it best:

Forgive, sounds good
Forget, I’m not sure I could
They say time heals everything
But I’m still waiting...

---I*Love*Green*Olives