GirlChat #286301
Re: It's More Complicated Than That
Posted by Myrddraal on 2004-November-09 23:53:05 EST, Tuesday
In reply to It's More Complicated Than That posted by 28 on 2004-November-09 20:40:21 EST, Tuesday
i approch it from the perspective that they are not willing relationships. i do not rule out the possibility that some may be, but that i should not ignore ALL of them simply because one in 10 may be fully consentual. (could be more, could be less)
i realize what happens AFTER the abuse is gennerally worse than the abuse itself ... not always a result of therapists (becuase many sexually abused young people do not recieve, or compleate therapy) ...
anyway, some here would not at all, ever, help some one catch a sexual abuser ... because off the CHANCE that it may be consentual ...
i dont go for GC group think ... i belive that the risk of REAL abuse is too great .. and catch the abusers first, ask questions later ... better to keep 8 children for being raped at the will of the adult than let them all continue to be abused because of the off chance that 2 were consenting...
it's simply the lesser of 2 evils as i see it.
it's also the law .. and i'm in favor of enforcing the law.. if you dont like it, change it..
~M~
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Responses
- You can't just 'change the law'... - Devils advocate on 2004-November-10 14:33:10 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 8)
- Re: You can't just 'change the law'... - Myrddraal on 2004-November-10 19:03:59 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 7)
- Re: You can't just 'change the law'... - BB on 2004-November-11 02:42:33 EST, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- Full agreement - Dissident on 2004-November-12 00:09:46 EST, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Ok, I do agree with some of that. - Devils advocate on 2004-November-10 19:48:59 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 4)
- Re: Ok, I do agree with some of that. - Myrddraal on 2004-November-10 20:05:48 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- I'm still not sure about that. - Devils advocate on 2004-November-10 20:51:27 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- Re: I'm still not sure about that. - Myrddraal on 2004-November-10 22:00:25 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- You almost have it... - Devils advocate on 2004-November-11 20:20:59 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: I'm still not sure about that. - Myrddraal on 2004-November-10 22:00:25 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- I'm still not sure about that. - Devils advocate on 2004-November-10 20:51:27 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Ok, I do agree with some of that. - Myrddraal on 2004-November-10 20:05:48 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- Re: You can't just 'change the law'... - BB on 2004-November-11 02:42:33 EST, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- Re: You can't just 'change the law'... - Myrddraal on 2004-November-10 19:03:59 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 7)