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It all starts with the kids doesn't it?

Posted by JackSummer on Wednesday, November 19 2014 at 4:55:14PM

I bought a book last week in my search for books on sex education that were unbiased and talked about more than just disease and prengancy. I found a great one called "It's Perfectly Normal Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health".

I like this book and I will be saving it for when I have kids. Few points:

One of the most challenged sex-ed books apparently. Very controversal, many parents have protested it.

It actually mentions horniess and pleasure involved in sexual activity as well as alternate types of sexual contact. Remember this book is meant for late preteens and teens, though I think it is good for six and up.

Many claim it is for teens but the author's intent was teens and preteens.

A big complaint is that it is a book for "pedophiles". The book does not say sexual contact with adults is bad or wrong, all it does is say sexual contact without consent is bad. You see there is a section on sexual abuse, but unlike many books on sexual abuse I have read, it does not explicitely call sexual contact with adults bad all the while the whole book states that sexual contact is fun and exciting. So in essence these critics are actually right, but they think this is a bad thing.

Now onto my point.

What with children's ease of access to all kinds of information thanks to ease of access to the internet, they are increasingly expressing their sexuality and learning about it, regardless of the attempts of adults to keep them ignorant.

This is why "sexualization of children" is a much more popular topic. The natural sexuality of children is no longer easy to contain and it is making people upset.

Part of the reason I am a non but agree with the pro contact side of the paedosexual debate is because of early sexual experiences I had and my love for them and desire for more. I have first hand experience of being a child, being sexual, wanting to be more sexual, etc.

I think an important factor in all this is for those paedosexuals who are not exclusive and have children of their own is for them to raise their children sexually open and to express their view to their kids that paedosexuals are not bad but good people like most people. That's my plan.

It needs to be actively brought up, especially if your child attends schools. If you let it go to chance, school will teach them the common social perception. You cannot remain passive.

Now I am not saying to forge their path in life into a paedosexual advocate, that's the oppisite of what we want, for children to be controlled, however just teach them the truth. It is as simple as that.

Now I will address the elephant in the room. The paedosexual that is often ignored here but definitely is here probably lurking but never registering. The fact is not every pedosexual with children is behaving legally. They may be downloading child porn or my be sexual with their own child or another. If you are doing so non-consensually then just turn yourself in please. However if consensually I must suggest you stop because of the legal and social atmosphere but stop in the most non-jarring way you can, for the child. Also if consensually this post of mine is of utter importance.

I get the feeling active pedosexuals choose to take a "little information as possible" route. Where they do not explain things to kids for fear the kid will say something. This is going to have the oppisite affect. First of all the kid is more likely to say something out of ignorance, second, and more importantly, the child is at a much higher risk of sociogenic harm. When they get older, they will see an adult who did things with them sexually, but largely kept them ignorant. This will seem to be an underhanded tactic to them and it will bother them at the least but more than likely cause trauma as a combination of feelings of betrayal and sociogenic harm.

I want to reiterate that if anyone reading this is active they should stop asap. I am not trying to give advice on best how to be sexual with a child but to avoid harm, the harm is very hard to avoid and currently, until social views ease, it is tantamount that you avoid overt sexual contact with kids. No matter how much they love it and seek it out now. They are growing up and living in this society, in 5-10 years when they near legal adulthood things will not be much changed.

I seem to have went off track.

Anyway it is the kids. Raise your children to be open minded and accepting. Sexually or otherwise. I am pulling this out of my ass but I hazard to guess at least 5% (higher when including non-exclusives) of the human population has an attraction to preteens (where as most of the population has an attraction to teens and older). There are so many of you. Many of you have kids yourselves. Even if that is only 1% of the 5%. That's three million people (worldwide, more like 150,000 in America) who can shake up the foundations of this sexually fucked society. This is not including nons like myself. All you have to do is change perceptions. As I said, not raise little soldier activists, but humans with open minds and hearts and acceptance of what is human.

We live in times that are harmful to children. Sure times are better overall for all people, this is undeniable, but we must continue on. We are medically and technologically very advanced, even socially we have come far, sexually we still lag, but it will change. For our children we still lag, but it will change.

As Qtns2di4 said (I think it was you or maybe Dissident or Dante... Baldur maybe?) the oppressed minority has never acheived freedom and acceptance by themselves. This will be an effort by children, nons, and paedosexuals. Raise your kids so if they hear someone spouting the typical anti nonsense, they will actually step up to debate. When someone is expressing that child sexuality is non-existant, there will be people to actually argue against that view.

I see big change coming ahead. Before I am dead I know I will at least see the wheel of change begin turning. It will be led by the children, afterall what isn't?





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