Glad to see you again.

As for your questions - I'm afraid there's not much I can add.

Certainly the masculine looks and behavior of western women can be off putting. I was surprised when I visited Russia how attractive young women in their 20s can be, when they dress and act like women rather than as men - and when the "skinny" ones aren't 50 pounds overweight.

They still aren't as attractive as young girls, of course, but it goes a long way when women are feminine.

I've heard a great deal about "porn addiction", but I note that it is generally coming from social conservatives and feminists - which is always a dangerous combination. I grew up in an environment in which porn was simply not available, and even artistic nudes were restricted to an occasional illustration in a book showing a famous classical painting. Any sort of nude imagery simply did not exist in that environment - and yet by sixth grade I was noticing that most of the boys were not only interested in very different girls than the ones I liked, but were rather vicious in insulting the appearance of the girls I thought prettiest - which is to say, the slim ones with pretty faces and little to no breast development.

So, keep in mind: the social conservatives promote the idea of "porn addiction" creating problems because deep down they are still trying to sell their belief system to the public, and when they can't do it honestly they are more than willing to lie. The feminists push the idea because they are bitter hags who don't like men being happy. In both cases it's the same drivel they've always pushed, they've just repackaged it in hopes that they can convince the unwary to be as unhappy as they are.

I would be cautious about being overzealous in avoiding legal imagery of girls. History has shown that when people are deprived of those things which they have strong drives to want - such as the opposite sex or food - that they tend to become obsessed with it.