Everyone hates each other these days. I see people hating on other people because they don't love people enough and not seeing the irony in it. I've gotten to where I just ignore people who spread hate whether on these boards or in my life.
I think you misunderstand my comment about the male gaze. These are mods, not the main story. As in modifications/add-ons to the game. Nexus-mods, a site completely unrelated to the people who made the game is deleting modifications to the game that give a skirt to main character that you can wear.
I hope your depression issues end soon.