I just remember being instantly put-off by her negativity. Any woman who tries to shame a man for being attracted to her physical traits clearly has some problems of her own. I understand wanting someone to like you for more than just your looks. That's completely sound and makes perfect sense. The shaming for finding the way she looks to be appealing? That's often sourced either in some feminist lunacy, or sometimes it just reveals some unresolved self-loathing. Both are things I have encountered personally, and my advice about women like that is to run away from them as fast as you can. Nothing but drama and trouble.