Well, she interests me, I love kids, I just am not really attracted to her, but I likely will be soon.
I am also, very good at keeping things from seeming too obvious. Like, as long as I am also attracted to the mom, I won't leave the mom high and dry when it comes to attention/romance.
I am a six figure + earner. So, not rolling in dough but I get by very comfortably. Mom also makes a solid living, not that I care about that. I prefer a traditional role if I were to have a life partner, where mom will raise our kids and then when they are older she can focus on career.
For now, this is just to date and have a good time. Though I also won't like... drag mom on a ride if I see it will lead to nothing.
I remember you once telling me it'd be nice to grow old with a partner, back when I was venting about probably dying alone, especially since even adult age gap relations are considered pedophilia these days... and I am not even that old yet. I do agree.
Thanks for the response, like you said, there are no easy answers. Well, things can't get worse than what we have suffered for years. Might ask her out on a date.