I think I know what you are referring to, but you also have to remember some people are just obsessed with other topics or for some reason very invested in them, no pun intended. Also some are dealing with life issues. I've had my own. I can remember Hajduk being an evil bastard to me in the chat a few years back, but these days he's been very cool to speak to.
I hope we can chat again one day, away from hostile eyes that is. I'm not soldered to this place last time I checked. As I said, I do think circumstances necessitate a move soon, provided the internet is even still around in a year. Crazy times. I'm glad you have more of an offline life these days and I hope some real life people in your vicinity who care. It's important that we all realize that, for we all get older and things can be a little different for us for obvious reasons.
Come chat some Saturday evening! Don't be a stranger, old friend.<3