I'm very non-PC, especially with my family as I know any judgments they make won't be long-lasting. I think people (I don't mean you, I know you're intelligent) who get all worked up over such-and-such term being used are idiots. I don't mean offensive terms, just non-PC stuff.
One incident, as a student - a girl in my class used the term "Oriental" to refer to Asians. The professor got all upset over this, admonishing her for using this term, and the best part - the fucking girl was Asian!!! So now you have a white moron telling an Asian what terms they can use to refer to their own fucking race.