Actually, what you wrote is you were going to write as an outsider if you posted the rant you did on your (outsider) blog. In which case some of the mistakes could have been understandable. Instead you posted here as a GirlLover. I'd like to think in the future you'd be willing to do a bit more research on the subject before condemning your brother and sister Paedophiles.

Not to say we're all angels or never make mistakes, I know and you know we do. I've said before publically I don't always agree with Winston, I've disagreed with Rookie to the point he refuses to allow my comments on his blog, and Gawd knows I don't agree with much of what Lindsay Ashford does these days! Nevertheless I didn't allow my personal disagreement to stand in the way when it came to posting about GoDaddy as it regards Lindsay, I voted when Rookie asked for support for his podcast, and I blogged about this whole sordid story that gave birth to Absolute Zero. We have to stand up for each other when we can, no one else will do it for us.

As for your point about the Absolutely Nothing blog, try to understand that I agree with you it's a fall back position-- IF you consider it as an attempt to change minds --in which case then yes it will be a miserable failure. What I think is wrong is the perspective you're coming at it from... I see my blog and the AN blog as publishing, not debates. My goal is to put the information out there as carefully supported as I can make it and be a resource for facts. If I change anyone's mind then I'll be gratified, but I don't expect that to be a common occurrence. The whole point in debates on various forums isn't to change minds necessarily so much as it is to announce our numbers, that we exist in strength. That there are more of us than there are of them.

Look at all the new members we've gained lately! Discounting that some of them are likely to be antis posing as one of us to get the 'inside dirt' consider how many of them have heard of GirlChat from the many attempts to badmouth it with our own words. I once told the Something Awful Goons when they invaded tkGL.net I was thrilled they were there because in the months that followed their 'invasion' we would see three or four new members joining up from their own group having seen who were were and some of themselves in us. This is no different. We are I believe seeing an increase in numbers of people finding GirlChat as a direct result of the hater's actions. Our enemies are in this way our greatest friends.

As for the battle you mention... Personally I agree with your points and the conclusion but I think you're starting off on faulty data. I do not think paedophiles are an aberration any more than a man who only likes women with DD breasts, the woman who only likes men clean-shaven men, or the or the men and women who only like the opposite sex. Historically marriages have always been between younger girls and older men. Some of that is societal and some of that is biology. I see our current situation as a blip on the radar, sooner or later biology will rule all. It has already begun in much of the western world--if the increasingly younger age of menarche isn't a sign of biology reasserting itself I'll eat my hat.

Our problems as I see it isn't that we are paedophiles and need to be accepted our problem in my opinion is most of us are exclusive paedophiles to the point we are unable to live fully in this sex repressed society.

--I*Love*Green*Olives (who would love to hear suggestions of actions that would not be fallback positions)