WOW!

what a blow. I'm sorry to hear all of this Kevin. I'm also sorry to say i'm a little in the dark about your troubles. If you've mentioned them on the board, I didn't see that/those posts. Of course, I can guess, but i don't feel comfortable doing so. assumptions can lead to big mistakes.

I'm not sure what else to say. You're welcomed to email me if you'd like greenfly@fastmail.fm.

I've been fortunate enough to have a reasonably strong family. I got caught being naughty as a teenager, and after the initial shock my parents experienced, all was back to "normal". My sisters never knew, nor did anyother relatives.

I hope things work out for you. :)
Greenfly