Hi Minstrel,

I posted a similar question here many months ago, because I felt kind of "left out". I was thrilled that I was not alone!

My dilemma: I really yearn to form a so called "nucleous" family unit with a wife, a few children, a dog and a nice house to call our home. But, when I form too close bonds to a woman, the inner me chickens out and a certain "limb" state occurs :)

I can simply not find the attraction. Having sex with an adult feels kind of like cheating her and myself. I could only pull it through if I were to imagine she was 9-11 or around that age range, but then again, it wouldn't be the right thing to me.

I will have to do with being single, having a good job, being respected, owning my own appartment and having lot's of friends. No one knows of my attractions and they probably believe I'm gay :-) The only ones who know and who I dare talk to about this subject matter, are the nice people in here.

The time I will have sex again is probably only when the following occurs:

1. she consents to it
2. the AOC is below 12
    and perhaps most importantly...
3. it is morally accepted by society

The only sex I have nowadays, is in my mind...

- Concerned
PS: Just like Scotty below, I don't like pubic hair either :-)