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It's Just A Fantasy ...

Posted by Dr. Puzzled on Tuesday, July 23 2002 at 11:58:19PM
In reply to AAAAAARRRRRRGGHHH! posted by poisontears on Tuesday, July 23 2002 at 11:30:43PM

It's not the real thing. Didn't Billy Joel once say that? Anyway....

pt,

The fact that you have such fantasies does not worry me so much because you so clearly do feel that such actions in reality would be horrific to you. I cannot explain fantasies and the role they play for us, but some people fantasize about torturing or killing their boss, but would never hurt a fly. Some enjoy the role playing of S&M, but would hate it if they were really harming an unwilling participant. Some people love watching violent movies or playing violent video games, yet are horrified by real murders, war, or brawling. Just because you have a fantasy about something does not make you evil. The fact that you would not want these fantasies to be real is a very important thing.

I think I have said this to you before, but it is certainly the case that some people have rape fantasies and find the idea of it sexually arousing, but would never consider doing it for real. The things we think about and even how those "dark" thoughts might please us is not to be confused for how we really act and what we really would do when real people are involved.

Don't give up on yourself. I haven't. :-)

That'll be $100, please.


Dr. Puzzled


Dr. Puzzled





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