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Re: A bad anti argument I hear

Posted by Dissident on Tuesday, December 16 2014 at 05:03:54AM
In reply to Re: A bad anti argument I hear posted by Dante on Monday, December 15 2014 at 8:53:12PM

This prejudice you so well described extends beyond the legal barrier, I'm sorry to say.

As you know, since I'm a law-abiding hebephile who still refuses to lie for the sake of public sentiment in my romantic choices, I often seek to date younger women of legal age in the 18-early 20s age range. These young women tend to retain enough of the physical and social attributes of young adolescent girls that I really click well with them emotionally and socially, and find them attractive to a reasonable degree on all levels.

However, because "polite" society finds such legal but notable age disparate partnerships offensive, I have often accused of only being interested in much younger women romantically because I "must want to control them," as if younger women are somehow all inherently easier to "control" or "dominate" than women approaching middle age, whom the narrative flatters by claiming they are universally uber-assertive and "resistant to control." This, I'm told by such prejudiced individuals, is the "real," insidious reason why I make the "choice" to court younger women rather than those in my own age group.

This type of prejudicial attitude is pure nonsense, and is a very unjustified attack on my character to try and bully me into faux courtships that will in no way make me or the woman in question happy, but which would satisfy public sentiment. Claiming that I have a "choice" in the matter is willful disregard for the truth, and it makes no logical sense to make such assumptions about a person now that mainstream society is well aware that preferences of this nature are not a choice.

It's also very condescending to younger women as a group, to suggest that they are all but universally submissive emotional china dolls who falter at the sight of an older person's "inherent authority," or that the only reason they could find an older man attractive is because they have "daddy issues" or some other sort of emotional problem. Granted, there are young women who do this, but there are also many who are quite legit in their gerontophiliac attractions, and have a natural physical, emotional, social, and aesthetic preference for older men (or women) that is fully within the romantic realm, and have nothing to do with some inherent and problematic desire for "father figure" or "mentor" above all else.

Remember the time I noted that the friend of a friend derided me behind my back as a "pedifile" for finding a 21-year-old woman attractive? She was more than happy to make such an ignorant use of such an emotionally hot button word to put down an attraction that she didn't personally approve of. And this was a woman who was an open lesbian that had many issues with her parents accepting her natural attraction base, and I gave her - and the gay friend of mine whom she was then courting - full support. You would think a gay person, especially one who dealt with those issues, would know better. However, too many people of any group have a powerful psychological need to make themselves feel better by "othering" alternate minority groups or attractions to deflect hatred from their own group or preferences.



Dissident





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