LOL.

My feeling is that if you were interested in getting your own way you would seek out the older divorcee who has fewer options than to settle for "Dissident the bully" rather than the hawt co-ed who is being asked out by all the guys.

And as for "easily swayed?" Sorry. The early 20something is usually very intensely focussed on her goals. She has only recently come out from under her parents thumb. And hasn't had a chance yet to settle into her new life. Expect to come in second place at best when you insert yourself into the life of someone with a clear-cut and as yet unrealized academic or career trajectory.

And, lets be frank if not a little disparaging; teens are necessarily self involved since they are engaged with a stage of life where the goal is to create an identity apart from ones family. And in late adolescence, it is to figure out who you are apart from even your peers. They often uproot themselves and go to an out of town college in order to shake off the last group identity and confront themselves as individuals.

Expect that the 20something will be working on herself and might not be as willing to consider others or to defer to them until she's done with this quest in her mid 20s.

Yes, there's a lot to recommend 20somethings. But setting their needs aside to cater to yours is not one of the features of that age.

Dante