I agree with JD420.

I also feel that its a good idea to eliminate the term "seduction" from ones vocabulary.

"Seduction" and its relative "tempt" are both words that place the location where your desire originates outside of you. They assume two things; that she intends your feelings of desire, and that she is trying to manipulate you into a response. ( As differentiated from their cousin "urge" where the responsibility for your actions is located in some inner "demon" which is not "you." )

Most of the time she is not going to say anything which will overtly tell you what she wants you to feel or do. When she does, it lacks the manipulative element connoted by "seduce."

Who knows what she wants? Sometimes girls just want to test their sexiness as a power in its own right rather than a means to another end. Heck, my mum said that more guys flirted with her as soon as she had an engagement ring than at any time before. Sometimes they want to test their power to charm without any possibility that it will lead anywhere.

Once we eliminate that term, we are left with two facts. You will find girls sexy regardless of their intentions. And, on occasion, girls may make requests of you for things you ought not to do for legal reasons.

My advice. Enjoy her sexiness but don't assume that your 25 year old coworker meant for you to get a stiffie just because you did. And don't buy the 19 year old any booze that she's not old enough to buy herself, its just not worth it.

Oh? Did we think that any of these issues were selective of us as Pedos?

But yeah, there will be many who desire us where we don't or can't reciprocate. Letting them down easy is better than being crude about it. But its equally bad to turn down that homosexual advance when it wasn't really there and the guy you're talking to is straight. So you don't want to assume too much.

Dante