I agree with your points...

I guess that came out wrong. Makes sense that forums can't allow for discussion of illegal activities. I appreciate your perspective that they are not one in the same. My observation remains that in my time here over the years, I never saw that same level of neurosis around self-hate on ones pedophilia as I have on other forums.

I see a lot of posts related to:
How do I stop masturbating.
How do I stop looking at girls/boys.
How do I stop having bad thoughts.
"Pray they gay away" sort of talk.

It is not something distinct, but a flavor or sense I get about the experience and thoughts of others.

To be pro-contact I suppose is taking that to some other logical extreme. There is a different place you can be in that thinking; like one of being agnostic.