...this is what they are looking for in all of this.

If you truly understand what they did, it becomes clear why they should not be legitimized, let alone allowed to operate within this community. This community has always placed a high value on trust, a rare and fragile commodity here.

That’s why it was troubling to hear "eEyore" say he would allow that site to be linked here. It’s a "wrongful decision", much like the one made years ago by GirlChat that "eEyore" wasn’t directly involved in back then, but his words played a role in supporting the site known as "The Dollhouse" to be linked here.

Ironically (LOL GOD's math), this situation is frighten similar to the linking of "The Dollhouse" on GirlChat. Many years ago I warned "Sheepy" ("She" was a GC Moderator at the time) that doing so would be a mistake. Unfortunately, my warning was ignored, and "The Dollhouse" was added to the GLGarden link list. That turned out to be a ""wrongful decision" because "The Dollhouse" was later raided, and many of its members were arrested.

I doubt "eEyore" remembers, but others who still post here certainly do. By allowing this new site to be listed now, GirlChat could be repeating the same mistake, putting many people at risk. And the worst part is they don’t see it. To them, this is just a dispute between an long standing forum and some disgruntled former staff. They don’t realize the potential danger this poses to members who choose to join that site, including GirlChat Chat moderators who have already signed up.

If those disgruntled ex-staff members (excluding the site owner) could so easily turn against the site they once pledged to protect because of their needs (In this case hurting feeling about removal of their friend) what does that say about their loyalty to the community or the cause it stands for?

There are many issues with that site, starting at the top with its leader. More will be said about him later, because he is not what he claims to be. The former staffers supporting him are too blinded by their dislike of me to recognize that they are being manipulated.

I’m not claiming to be infallible, I haven’t always been right, but I’ve been right far more often than not when it comes to spotting evil individuals and groups who enter our community with harmful intent. That’s not ego talking, it’s just a painful truth and those very few who know me knows that it is NOT ego seeking that drives what I do for the community. Along with others, I’ve consistently raised the alarm and in most cases have taken action against the evil individuals and groups with the aim of protecting the broader community. And I continue to do that today.

With all of the tracking and trying to defend against evil individuals and groups for the community, I didn't pay enough attention to the evildoers from within who sat at my own table.

But as I said before, VoA will get through this dark moment, just as we have many times before. We know how to wipe away our tears quickly and get back to doing the important work for our cause.

And on a lighter note, you just have to laugh and appreciate GOD’s math. :) :)

-sL-