(Because I know you're real.)
The only way without publicizing personal contact info to hostile players...
Is to find a way to enter the new open-reg chat when it is open.
Still working on more time-slots. Please be patient with me, fellow girl lovers, and hostile rat-bastards.
My only real-time chat method outside of the GC chat is Ricochet, which relies upon TOR.
So you can just arrive in chat when open, or request further info there if needed.