I had a LG relative doing stuff in front of me in my teens which awakened feelings that my highly respected (now deceased) older cousin (her father) likely took to his grave. I cannot reason any other cause for her to have shown me what she clearly already knew at age 7.

He was the eldest of 9. Seemed rather gay-ish, but ultimately, he was probably not of that other bent, IMPO. His wife did seem rather clueless. I could easily see him keeping secrets from her. I may never know, but his daughter did target me and awakened my secret pedo butterfly wings or something artful like that.

All true. Current teens probably not present here, but encouraged to speak if they are.