Trigger Warning: only adults are involved in this post. I know… ew…. Sorry Griffith ;)
I will refer to the mom as L and the daughter as P.
Being somewhat of a redpilled guy, single motherhood is a yellow flag to me (not red flag like most redpillers say). I like to know how the single motherhood came to be, this can turn it to a red flag, green flag or keep it yellow.
I found out P was born of an accidental pregnancy between L and her ex who had been dating a long time. There were plans for engagement, but as I have pieced together so far, he couldn’t handle the responsibility and left. L has taken care of her (with familial help) and during this time did well for herself. This is pretty much a green flag at this point. For me.
We have agreed to go on a date. Ill report back how it goes after it happens. We will be axe throwing and getting dinner/drinks. I havent been excited about a date for a while. Im liking what im seeing from our text convos so far.