speaking of Asian women ...

... I think the solution may lie there somewhat. We can also look at the example of Japan, and while women may retain their love of "kawaii" things, they don't dress like little girls even if they look like little girls. In fact, they generally dress very modestly and conservatively, in drab colors.

As for the west ... well, we could wait until natural selection provides us with the same results, or we could do a little genetic engineering....