It is generally trans-women who are cancelling TERFs (trans exclusionary radical feminists) for being unwilling to have sexual relationships with them.
As you say, it is hysterical, but it is hysterical chiefly because these trans-women are absolutely in the right according to the standards which radical feminists themselves have demanded to be upheld.
That is, these radical feminists are hoist by their own petard. They absolutely hate it when the standards of equality that they have insisted upon for half a century are applied to themselves.
This in turn makes it clear that these feminists never wanted equality, they merely wanted to have their own way in all things.