That's demonstrably untrue.
I called myself a pedophile and my family disowns me.
I called myself developmentally delayed and everyone wants me to marry their 12-year-old.
Actually someone else called me developmentally delayed and then I ran with it. The truth is, antis are that stupid. They want something to hate, not... legitimately. They hate the umbrella term pedophile and those with whom they associate it, not necessarily every person who ever wanted to have sex with an underage girl. The reason matters enormously. To think otherwise is ignorant.