>How come you are using this nick and not the other?

How come you believe it even remotely ethical to speculate about the identity of other posters?

"This person" refers to Leucosticte, whom you have been attacking.

It make no sense in terms of utilitarian ethics (what you call the big picture). Considering other options - what duty do GLs have to antis, who are hostile to our love? Would it be virtuous to support them?