I'll befriend just about anybody up to the point they attack me. Nobody has.
I'm sorry to hear you got outed. Most (not all) threats are just that: something to make the issuer feel good about themselves... masturbation in the strictest sense of the word. Do be careful, though. There is that one in a thousand that's an absolute idiot.
I check in here at GC as well as at VoA about once a week. So, I can be your weekly friend if you'll have me.
Hugs to you.