Normie fickle-ty.

A 16 year old boy is invited by a 12 year old girl to Her bedroom. They make love. They are found out.

Now, what is Society's opinion of the little girl? (Oh, the poor thing. He took advantage of Her.)

Now, what is Society's opinion of the little boy? (That little shit! He's going to grow up to be a rapist. Throw him in jail before he does it again!)

The LAW in most places will not prosecute unless there is more than 4 years age difference between the kids. The 16 year old boy is right on the edge. They may just incarcerate him. If his parents have money, then no. He'll just have to see a psychiatrist for a year or so.