What abuse? You're going to have a pretty hard time convincing me that you've been horribly abused for years, but go ahead and try... You don't even know what it is to suffer abuse.
And gc has gone to shit, as you say, because a lot of the good members got sick of the immaturity and foolishness of other members so they left to go elsewhere, so I've been told.
And I'm not a nick, I'm a person. And please, go ahead..."expose" me.