And if they cringe and want to avoid the reminder when its 20/30/40/50somethings we're talking about should we really assume that it won't be a factor in wanting to avoid being reminded that someone else gets a stiffie when thinking about their grade-schooler?

This is funny.

The Daughter would have been memorable that weekend anyway.

But what most made memorable the Halloween weekend was the lazy morning after (no, not that kind of morning after) as the Daughter wanted to get up and I wanted to sleep moar, next to her of course, and she got up in her scantily clad self trying to convince me to get up, and her mother, entirely matter of factly just asked "don't you have any shame that qtns2di4 watch your exquisite body?" and she said no, continued to half-dance, and eventually gave up and returned to the bed to be engulfed into my arms.

Mother is something.

Ironically all her body shame returns once she wants to change clothes. At that point she herself runs me out. I am sure her mother wouldn't, or at least not if she didn't ask for it. But oh well, I respect that too, as I respect her shameless moments too. Ironically too, as I have said before, sexy as she is, horniness takes the backseat with her more than any other of my regular girls. I am sure she could change right there and I would be awed at her beauty but not hot under the collar as I would with the tweens or even Baby Gaga. But it is what she wills.

But it is also silly to pretend that they feel entirely comfortable about their kids' sex lives and don't have a selfish interest in their children being sexually inactive

I am pretty sure Mom knows that they will be active, or at least that the chance is high. I am pretty sure that as much as she may not really approve, she also does not freak out nor tries to prevent it at all costs. And I am sure that her main concern is for their safety if they choose to, even as she may prefer they choose not to.

But it certainly is a hard balance to strike, and I see that everyday.