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It is obvios, but it doesn't make it wrong to repeat it.

This is also why there are two viable models of grooming: the hostile and the friendly.

The hostile groomer oppozes parents directly. But it is only recommended when the child is in an actively abusive household, when a person who directly oppozes is required.

The friendly groomer works with parents. Reassures parents that he is not there to undermine their authority but to work with it to improve the child's well-being. If the friendly groomer does something the parents don't approve, it is only if it is innocuos and the consequences contained.

Parents are afraid of something like the hostile groomer and mostly for good reason. But except for truly abusive parents, a hostile groomer should not succeed. Parents should not be afraid of friendly groomers though. Friendly groomers in the end will increase child respect for parents, even if sometimes that requires showing parents to be in the wrong.