Egg and chicken

Modern women are capable of being socially successful independently of a man because we raise them to. There was a time when we didn't, and they were factually incapable of it. Same as there was a time when Blacks, even after their freedom was granted, were illiterate, and therefore factually incapable of doing many things Whites could. Children are not incapable, we make them incapable. This is obvious not only looking back at history, but even looking sideways to other countries and cultures where children are still people. Of course in many things (though not all either) experience matters, but banning experience and then arguing lack of experience is dishonest.