The risk is too great

"adult having a sexual relationship with Abby"

Any sexual relationship with a child is not worth the risk in today's climate. I can't talk in behalf of a RSO, but I could talk as a victim. The crime against me was a crime of opportunity. I was just in wrong place in the wrong time. It is sad when I look back I can't remember vivid details of the molestation, but I could narrate the doctor exam, the two psychologist, foster care, supervise visit, the social worker and the detectives. The false accusation (by police) on my father tore my family apart. My mother till this day believes my dad molested me because sometimes I fell asleep with him in the couch. My father is someone who fell asleep easily so we will wake up in the morning together, and she thought that he did some fondling while I was sleeping. Before this incident, you see pictures of my mother and father so much in love. There are pictures of them hugging and kissing. After everything closed, it was constant bickering. They say kids don't want their parents to divorce. My sisters, brother and I wanted our parents to divorce. Just this week, when my dad came to visit my nephew, he wanted to reassure me that he never touch me. Decades have past and it still affects my family. In high school, I burned the whole case in a trash can as a symbol of moving on. I forgave everyone who was involved, even my parents. I wouldn't wish any child or family to go through the system like I did.