Re: A YF is not property.

Oh please, if you have seen my posts before you should know that I know I do not own a LF. It's not about ownership but about the law and the reality of current societal attitudes. Also the difference between intellectualizing and feeling. A man that avoids contact with girls in his AoA and a man that takes care of one 20 hours a week are not likely to have the same views. My comments were from emotional sources and meant half in humor, which seems to be lacking in this 'debate'.

I care for LG's in my AoA and am doing so right now. That is living in the field of the intellectual knowledge of children's liberation and right to sexual decisions and, in my opinion, carries more responsibility and therefore 'clout'. I think there is too much criticizing and preaching of the OP and not enough appreciation for his courage and right to make decisions based on his need to protect his relationship with his LG.

Dissident, I have been devouring the books you recommended and I see a lot of your views reflected in them. Since we are all being 'nice' to each other, I really don't see much difference in these 'arguments'. It's all about the girls we love but do not have, which is frustrating for all. Let's not forget about that love in all this 'talk'.