I'm sorry to hear this

FireyOne, I am very sorry that this has happened to you.

Without more details, I'm afraid that my advice to you is limited (& I recommend that you don't give those details here). But whatever happens, like Misty said, keep your mouth firmly closed as far as the cops are concerned until you have had a long chat with a good lawyer, and have him sit with you if you're interviewed by the police (if it comes to that, I hope it doesn't).

For reasons that have recently happened, I am reluctant to post my email addy on the board, but if you would like to mail me, Dissident does have my email address (at least, I hope you still do, Dissy). If you'd like to mail him, I'm perfectly happy to let Dissy give you my email addy.

(Diss, I hope this is ok. I really don't want to use you as some kinda mailbox, and I know this is taking liberties, but it's the only way I can think of to get my addy to FireyOne).

If so, please feel free to get in touch with me, & I'll be happy to give whatever help I'm able to.

In the meantime, just hang in there, FireyOne. Here's wishing you good luck!

T.