Re: More about Canada's 'Family violence initiative'

Very well said analysis, and very well thought out. Thanks.

I agree with just about everything here, and furthermore it is the actual presence of these laws and social mores that further perpetrate the problem. I believe that forcing adults to suppress emotions that they can't understand only causes those emotions and desires to fester and boil putting the person under increasingly greater stress and turmoil. Some of us seek help to vent this out and a poor few snap like a twig and a child is the victim. Then to further the problem the law attempts to remove ANY sort of outlet we could use.

I don't want to hurt a child, nor will I. But at times that festering stress and frustration took me to the brink of sanity, and being so afraid of myself, after being convinced that all pedophiles will eventually hurt a child, I tried to take my own life. I did not want to be that monster I thought I was. But then I learned that everything I believed in was wrong, and was able to accept myself and slowly the pressure is releasing.

The fact is that society hates us so much that they don't want us around. They want us removed. Because if they try to understand and accept us and the natural sexuality of the children, then they would be forced to see how many of their beliefs are in error.

I feel like I am now awake, my eyes are open and I can see things I chose not to before I came to the beginning of acceptance. People prefer to see what they want to see, because it's easier and we are all lazy. And, because of societies beliefs towards sexuality on all levels, we are all screwed up. We all know that it is natural, it's part of what we are as a species, yet from birth we are taught to suppress, ignore and condemn our own and others sexuality. So how can any being grow mentally healthy under such oppression?

But instead of recognizing this as we age, we maintain it because it's easier. Then we subject our children to the same mores and values and the cycle continues.

So, yes. The real abusers of children are all of us, for making and allowing such laws to exist. For keeping the youth ignorant for as long as we can to satisfy our desire for power over another.